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The Sudden Blog

News and views on all the latest developments in sudden bereavement care and support, with updates from researchers, support professionals and Brake staff and volunteers. All views expressed are those of the contributor and do not necessarily represent those of Brake or its employees.
May
08

Dying Matters Awareness Week - What can you do?

Dying Matters Awareness Week - What can you do?

The period following any death is a difficult time, but a sudden death is particularly devastating for the loved ones of the person who has died. Those grieving find their lives have changed greatly, with no warning, and often little preparation. All deaths have an impact, but a sudden death brings its own unique set of issues.

Dying Matters Awareness Week 2017 focuses on the theme ‘What can you do?’. We are encouraging people to offer their support to people who have been bereaved – relatives, friends and colleagues – by helping them in practical ways and listening to them when they are ready to talk.

So… What can you do? Everyone grieves differently; however, it is more common after a sudden bereavement for a person to experience intense grief and more extreme emotions, due to the lack of warning. If you know someone who has been suddenly bereaved, be aware that they may feel scared, vulnerable and angry, but they will also need support. You could support them in practical ways, by offering a lift, helping them around the house, doing their shopping or cooking, or offer to spend time with them in a place where they feel safe and comfortable.

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Apr
07

Widowed & Young – helping young widows and widowers cope with life after death

Widowed & Young – helping young widows and widowers cope with life after death

Losing a loved one at any age is incredibly difficult, and the sudden death of a partner at a young age can be particularly challenging. In this blog, Widowed & Young chairman Georgia Elms talks about the support that the charity was able to offer her following the sudden death of her husband.

Georgia Elms’ life was turned upside down when her husband Jon died suddenly from meningitis, at the age of just 38.

“Jon went to bed feeling unwell, and woke in the middle of the night a lot worse, so I rang for an ambulance – but by morning he’d died,” says Georgia. “It was two weeks after our daughter Daisy’s first birthday. And the day after his death, I found out I was pregnant with our second child.”

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